Are there any playgroups that except men?! There seem to be women's groups that cater to other women, but I feel left out. I am a military spouse and stay at home dad. I live off base so meeting people with young children has been difficult. 

29 Palms Play Dates

The first group is full of females, but they do have frequent play dates, hopefully they aren't closed minded or crazy.

Here is a male military spouse network that may be helpful for planning a play date or meeting up with other male spouses if the crazies scare you away from the first group

Macho Spouse

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www.machospouse.com 

Not sure where off base you live but we just moved here and I was thinking of starting a playgroup in Joshua Tree/ Yucca Valley. Trying to figure out how to create the group on Facebook now lol